Comments on: What “The Women” Has To Say To Women http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/ Safety.Community.Direction Mon, 09 Jan 2012 00:22:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: Renee http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-605 Renee Fri, 24 Jul 2009 19:55:01 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-605 Priscilla, Good to hear from you. It's great to hear from a find like-minded fan of old movies. There are some great stories out there, which I think have good insights into the things we go through. And it sounds like you're working through forgiveness and recovery with the Lord's help. Praise God for that. I hope you'll stay in touch and add to the comments here with the things that God has taught you in your proces. I'm sure many of the women will appreciate your insights. Take good care. -R Priscilla,
Good to hear from you. It’s great to hear from a find like-minded fan of old movies. There are some great stories out there, which I think have good insights into the things we go through. And it sounds like you’re working through forgiveness and recovery with the Lord’s help. Praise God for that.

I hope you’ll stay in touch and add to the comments here with the things that God has taught you in your proces. I’m sure many of the women will appreciate your insights. Take good care. -R

]]> By: Priscilla http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-581 Priscilla Wed, 22 Jul 2009 21:34:22 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-581 RENEE!! I agree...Old movies are the best. you are right..I always wondered if there would be a remake of this fabulous movie...i never thought it would happen...due to egos. However, I did buy the ticket and saw it....my feelings are the same as yours. The original is better....no need for all the unnecessary stuff. Just want to say thank you for all the points in this articles. I wish I found you during my trials. I Praise God that He was at the throne and I was at His feet. 1.5 years in recovery with his infidelity. Donna, I found "Choosing Forgiveness" by nancy Lehigh (i think) helped. I too get stuck with memorie and moments....thank you Renee. RENEE!!
I agree…Old movies are the best. you are right..I always wondered if there would be a remake of this fabulous movie…i never thought it would happen…due to egos. However, I did buy the ticket and saw it….my feelings are the same as yours. The original is better….no need for all the unnecessary stuff.

Just want to say thank you for all the points in this articles. I wish I found you during my trials. I Praise God that He was at the throne and I was at His feet. 1.5 years in recovery with his infidelity.

Donna, I found “Choosing Forgiveness” by nancy Lehigh (i think) helped. I too get stuck with memorie and moments….thank you Renee.

]]> By: Renee http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-18 Renee Thu, 23 Oct 2008 17:08:40 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-18 Donna, I like your sense of humor about the lobotomy! :) Seriously though, riding out several small crisises can wear you down. You mentioned having a hard time forgiving and the fact that you have a hard time setting boundaries. (I usually can set them, I don't always enforce them). But it seems to me that forgiveness can come easier if you feel you have more control. I would recommend the book "Boundaries" by Townsend and Cloud (see WifeBoat Store) if you don't already have it. Then, I would suggest a good support system to help you with making and keeping boundaries! That's what I needed, and what helped me. I hope to add a posting on support systems with more ideas soon. Hang in there, girl! -R Donna, I like your sense of humor about the lobotomy! :) Seriously though, riding out several small crisises can wear you down. You mentioned having a hard time forgiving and the fact that you have a hard time setting boundaries. (I usually can set them, I don’t always enforce them). But it seems to me that forgiveness can come easier if you feel you have more control. I would recommend the book “Boundaries” by Townsend and Cloud (see WifeBoat Store) if you don’t already have it. Then, I would suggest a good support system to help you with making and keeping boundaries! That’s what I needed, and what helped me. I hope to add a posting on support systems with more ideas soon. Hang in there, girl! -R

]]> By: Donna http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-13 Donna Sun, 19 Oct 2008 04:58:49 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-13 Feel so relieved to have found your blog/website and the picture isbeautiful and the title clever. Your analogy is good, but as I am in another small crisis with the husband, it is hard to put my heart around continually being forgiving. But the truth is I do not know how to set boundaries. How do you tell someone you need to get a lobotomy!!!!! thank you so much renee for being there. hope to see more entries soon. Feel so relieved to have found your blog/website and the picture isbeautiful and the title clever. Your analogy is good, but as I am in another small crisis with the husband, it is hard to put my heart around continually being forgiving. But the truth is I do not know how to set boundaries. How do you tell someone you need to get a lobotomy!!!!! thank you so much renee for being there. hope to see more entries soon.

]]> By: Renee http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-12 Renee Fri, 10 Oct 2008 01:42:18 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-12 One thing's for sure, Carrie - we can trust God to complete His work in us, through us, and for us. He is credible and faithful! Sometimes more faith is required than others, but He rewards those who dilligently seek Him. Thanks for your comments. I hope to post again in a day or so. -R One thing’s for sure, Carrie – we can trust God to complete His work in us, through us, and for us. He is credible and faithful! Sometimes more faith is required than others, but He rewards those who dilligently seek Him. Thanks for your comments. I hope to post again in a day or so. -R

]]> By: Carrie http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Carrie Mon, 06 Oct 2008 00:57:24 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-8 You betcha! Your points are spot on. Still married after 28 yrs., several infidelities on his part, almost divorced, and God is on the throne. Lots of hard work, mine and his, and leaving the trust issue (for me) up to God. Not naively, but not obsessing about everything. I guess I've gone to yellow alert from red. Improving, lots to be thankful for . .. the foremost of which is God's faithfulness. Not mine, not his. God's. And no, I'm not perfect, but I'm not a victim any longer either! You betcha! Your points are spot on. Still married after 28 yrs., several infidelities on his part, almost divorced, and God is on the throne. Lots of hard work, mine and his, and leaving the trust issue (for me) up to God. Not naively, but not obsessing about everything. I guess I’ve gone to yellow alert from red. Improving, lots to be thankful for . .. the foremost of which is God’s faithfulness. Not mine, not his. God’s. And no, I’m not perfect, but I’m not a victim any longer either!

]]> By: Randy http://www.wifeboat.com/2008/10/what-the-women-has-to-say-to-women/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Randy Sun, 05 Oct 2008 21:46:51 +0000 http://www.wifeboat.com/?p=140#comment-5 I am not married or a woman but I still enjoyed your review/observations. Very good post. I am not married or a woman but I still enjoyed your review/observations. Very good post.

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